Decisions

can be hard.  Especially for someone, like me, who hates to make decisions or declare anything definitively.  That is a major difference between Gary and me (is that grammatically correct?).  He will give a definite answer if it sounds logical to him.  I have to know something for sure, and even then I have a hard time committing to it -- just in case I'm wrong.  Once we came up for a word for his suppositions/definitive answers, but I can't remember what it was.  But even if I did remember, I probably wouldn't dare write it--just in case it was not the right word.  Maybe these differences are why we are a good match.  He needs me to call him on things or reign him in.   And I need him as an example of being confident and going forward even if I'm not sure of things.   I'm not sure if this is making any sense.   I think I was just thinking.