I'm always stealing writings from my siblings. But don't they say that "copying is the best form of flattery?" Actually, I know that the saying is "imitation is the best form of flattery." But why imitate when I can just copy?
Which is what I've done with this biographical sketch that my brother, Richard, wrote for one of our Hall reunions. Dad would be 99 years old today.
As Richard wrote at the end of this sketch, Dad did consider himself a fortunate man. And I, and my siblings, have always considered ourselves fortunate to have him as our father (and still do).
Biographical
Sketch
Golden was born in Provo , Utah ,
in 1914, the last of nine children. At the time, his father was a fruit farmer
with orchards on the Provo Bench (now Orem ). As ill-fate would have it, the bottom fell out
of the peach market around the time of Golden’s birth and his family lost
everything. As a result, a year later, following
a two-hundred mile, nine-day wagon trip, trailing two horses and a cow, infant
Golden and family found themselves homesteading a 160 acre piece of undeveloped
land in southwest Wyoming, living through a cold winter in a tent while the
father and older brothers literally built log walls and a roof around it. The log house where Golden spent his boyhood
still stands in the small community, composed of a dozen or so other
homesteading Mormon families, later to be called McKinnon , Wyoming . Much later in life, Golden, Charlet, and some
of their children, would periodically make a journey to McKinnon to visit
acquaintances who still remained, see the old log house in the hills, and pay a
visit to the grave of Golden’s mother in the small cemetery there.
Living on that ranch in McKinnon until he was
sixteen, Golden was obviously no stranger to hard work in his youth. Nor to isolation. All but one of his siblings were considerably
older than Golden (and would, furthermore, hightail it out of Mckinnon as soon
as possible). And the nearest neighbors
were a mile away. So opportunities for
childhood play and to be with children of his age were provided mainly by the
schooling available there (five boys and one girl in his class) and Sunday
church services, both held in private homes until a small schoolhouse,
eventually built, served both purposes.
When in 1930 his mother contracted pneumonia
and died, only two members of the large family remained at home, Golden, age
15, and his father. Each, in personal
writings, speaks of the other’s great difficulty with the loss of wife and
mother. Golden speaks of his father’s
great love for his wife and his heartbreak.
His father speaks of Golden’s heartbreak and loneliness.
His children hate to imagine what pain the loss
of his mother meant to Golden and how difficult that following year must have
been before he left Mckinnon at age sixteen to live with his oldest brother, Thomas
Levar, and family, first in Ogden, Utah,
then in Salt Lake City, where he completed the 11th grade at West
High School and worked part time for Western Union, delivering telegrams around
the city on a bike.
Golden
then returned to McKinnon for two years to help his father on the ranch, a
rough couple of years, for sure. In
1933, Golden joined the Civilian Conservation Corps., a grand pet project of
recently-elected FDR to help deal with the large and growing tide of
depression-time unemployment among young American men. In his stint with the CCC, Golden lived in a
camp of army tents on the shore
of Jackson Lake , helping clear timber for a new road, and, on the
side, got his feet wet in amateur boxing.
Later that year, Golden once again went to live
with his oldest brother and family, who by then had moved from Salt Lake City to Springville. He had two main objectives for his stay in
Springville: one, to finish high school, and two, to continue making a living for
himself. He would meet both objectives
by working when he could find it, and attending high school when he couldn’t. One vacation from school was a job with the
pipe mill in Springville, and another was part of a winter in Boulder City , Nevada ,
where Hoover Dam was under construction.
When he was not on a full-time job, he would
attend Springville
High School . And here, of course, begins the story of the
rest of his life. Enter...the Hall
family, E. Owen, Pearl ,
and the five famous (infamous?) HALL SISTERS.
In particular, in his case, the middle one. No wonder he was intoxicated by her. What a different world she represented from
his. What different backgrounds. He was dashing, to be sure, older and
devilishly handsome. But who was this young
woman in his class, this Charlet Hall? Spirted, smart as a whip, mischievous,
fun-loving and from a background of normal, healthy family life, giggly,
privileged, apparently well-to-do in depression-time America, big house on the
hill with a front-porch swing. No wonder
he fell flat-face for her, with a devotion that lasted the rest of his life.
Their courtship went on a couple of years, on
again, off again, Golden back to McKinnon for a while, working here and there,
finishing high school classes; Charlet to Salt Lake
for a while, attending LDS
Business College . Golden found a job on the railroad in Green
River, Wyoming, but it didn't last, and missing Charlet, he returned to
Springville. Intent on marriage, the big
event took place in early 1937. Charlet’s father, Dad Hall, Superintendent of
Transportation at Ironton, provided a recommendation for Golden that landed him
a job at the steel plant in Pittsburg, California, to which he at first
hitch-hiked, Charlet following later by more customary means. Later that year, however, Golden was called
back up for his previous railroad job, and wanting to be closer to home, he
accepted the offer and they moved back to Green River, Wyoming, where they
lived for the next six years, and where Gary and Richard were born.
Preferring, however, to raise a family in Utah
valley (and so Charlet could be closer to her parents and sisters), when the
defense department built a steel plant there to assist the war effort, they
gladly relocated to Provo, where Golden worked in the railroad transportation
department of the new plant as linesman, switchmen, and conductor, until, a
year later, the war ended and the plant closed.
Golden was unemployed once again, and for a year scratched out a living
on part-time jobs and borrowed money.
Hard financial times ended for the rest of Golden and Charlet’s life,
however, when US Steel Co. bought the new but abandoned steel plant, now named
Geneva, and, because of his considerable experience with the railroad, hired
Golden as a foreman, a yardmaster, for the transportation operation of the
plant, a position Golden retired from some thirty years later.
A
few of Golden’s chief hobbies, interests, and personality traits
Golden had a strong creative tendency and an
eye for beauty. An early expression of
these tendencies, remembered only by his older children, was a hobby he pursued
for a short while of painting small china dolls. These were figurines of women, eight to
twelve inches tall or so, usually in elegant gowns and accessories. He would buy them at craft shops in raw,
white china, paint and then shellac them into beautiful finished products. We remember the tiniest of brushes and the
many tubes and bottles of colored paint for skin, lips, eyes, lashes, gowns,
hats, sashes, gloves, shoes. Whatever
happened to those beautiful creations, I would like to know?
M r. Prothero,
as he was known to us, Uncle Walt's father who lived upstairs in the Prothero’s
home on 4th West in Provo, had a rather full woodworkers shop set up
in their garage, all the different saws, drills, sanders, and lathes a serious
woodworker would want. Golden was
welcomed by the Protheros into the shop, where, besides getting to know Mr.
Prothero rather well, he learned all the intricate skills needed to become a
skilled craftsman of wood furniture.
Later, following Mr. Prothero’s death, his family generously granted
Golden possession of a good number of the machines and tools he had learned to
use in their shop, which he then set up in a basement room of our house on
Cedar Ave. as the foundation of his own shop.
Fully for half his life, Golden found gratifying and creative use of
spare time in his shop, designing, then building and finely finishing beautiful
furniture for our home, and later, when the kids left home, for theirs. All of his children now have in our own homes
cherished pieces of woodwork: dressers, china closets, hutches, desks.
Late in his life, he discovered oil painting. He spent endless creative hours in retirement
painting, then repainting lovely landscapes.
It was as if Golden would be unsettled, restless, unless he was engaged
in some kind of artistic creation or another.
Related
to his artistic temperament, I’m sure, is the fact that Golden was a genuine
Romantic. A romantic sees things through
rose-colored lenses, sees beauty in people and things where others might not,
is an idealist, seeing and wishing things as they should be, not as they
often are. Romantics favor mercy
over justice. Golden was once promoted
to General Yardmaster over transportation at Geneva , a position involving a raise in pay
as well as greater authority, but he stepped back down to shift yardmaster when
he realized it also involved firing workers whose performance was sub-par,
something that went strongly against his democratic, romantic disposition. Charlet, much more a realist, who, in respect
to romanticism, in fact, very much
Golden’s counterpoint and balancing force, was particularly and often at odds
with him for his Madonna perception of the fairer sex, his unflagging
idealization of women. Her face would
often turn crimson when she spoke of his gullibility toward them.
The relative solitude Golden grew accustomed to
as a boy in Wyoming
remained a primary part of his life and personality. Although he genuinely liked and trusted
people, he never much cared for socializing.
He was very much a homebody, preferring small gatherings of family to
large social affairs. His hobbies, his
creative endeavors, too, were not social, but solitary ones. Perhaps all those still, quiet nights above
the prairie of his boyhood home infused him with a lifelong enjoyment and love
of it.
One final word about Golden’s personality. He was a gentleman in the true meaning of the
word. He was a gentle man. His movements were gentle, graceful. His mannerisms were gentle. His voice and speech were gentle. His thoughts were gentle. There was simply nothing abrasive about this
man.
Golden
always considered himself a fortunate man.
4 comments:
Bravo Richard, he caputured Dad in every way. Dad was and is my hero. I "get him" now more than ever before. A true gentle man of consumate integrity and a lover of beauty and truth.
I loved reading that. Grandpa was a boxer? I just can't see it!
I can't believe he would be 99?! It doesn't seem that long ago that he was here with us. . .I think that means I am getting old. Oh how I love Grandpa!
Thank you so much for posting that. I have a copy of that somewhere as well. I thought a lot about Dad yesterday. I miss him.
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